Archives for February 2013

The Cost of Fighting Over Who Gets The Dining Room Table

As anyone who has ever gone through a break-up knows, whether it's with a spouse in divorce or significant other in a relationship, equitable distribution is anything but equal.  After you factor-in … [Read more...]

How To Prove Your Former Spouse is in a Supportive Relationship, and Terminate or Reduce Alimony Payments

Here’s the typical scenario:  You know she’s living with another man.  She knows she’s living with another man, and that in doing so, her alimony is at risk for reduction or termination.  But she also … [Read more...]

Reasons Why Threats and Ultimatums Fail in Family Law Mediation

The Scene:  You've been going back and forth with your spouse over details of your divorce.  The kids; the house; the cars; and the knick knacks have been separated. Concessions and deals have been … [Read more...]

Preparing For Divorce

You know it's inevitable.  Maybe you've just been unhappy for years.  Maybe you've just realized that your spouse has been cheating.  Maybe there's something else just telling you that this is not the … [Read more...]

As Seen in the Huffington Post Divorce: Present Your Best Case to Avoid Litigating Your Divorce

Imagine your car is hit in the mall parking lot by a busy holiday-shopper, who wasn’t paying attention when she filled the back seat of her car with large packages blocking the visibility out of the … [Read more...]

Sesame Street Addresses Divorce

I grew up watching Sesame Street with my best friend and next door neighbor, Jonny.  We sat cross-legged on the floor, munching salted raw carrot sticks, while watching felt hand puppets dance across … [Read more...]

As Seen in the Huffington Post – Mediation Myths and Misunderstandings That May Affect Your Decisions in Divorce

The decision to divorce is probably one of the most important -- and most difficult -- decisions one will make during the course of a marriage. The unknowns and avalanche of effects falling like … [Read more...]