As Seen in the Huffington Post – Using a Cell Phone to Show That Your Former Spouse Is Cohabiting

Your former spouse is in a new relationship... hurray! Could there be wedding bells in the future? Maybe. But, if you're paying your ex alimony, there isn't much motivation to remarry (and give up … [Read more...]

As Seen in the Huffington Post … Is Alimony Offensive to Today’s Modern Woman or Modern Man?

When the concepts of alimony were first constructed, we lived in a society where most women were unable to work outside of the home and earn a living. And divorce was based on fault. Therefore, if a … [Read more...]

As Seen in the Huffington Post – Termination of Alimony: Another Look at the Utility of Cell Tower Location Data

Wouldn't you like to be able to prove that your former spouse is living with someone else, without having to spend a small fortune? Wouldn't it be nice to have "eyes" on the whereabouts of your former … [Read more...]

As Seen in the Huffington Post – Cohabitation, the Termination of Alimony and Cell Phones

What's a family law mediator and divorce coach like me doing writing about some techy new way to leverage cell tower location data to support or refute a claim for the termination of alimony? Isn't … [Read more...]

As Seen in the Huffington Post – How Much Do You Trust Your Former Spouse?

How many of you would consider sharing a checking account with your ex after the divorce is final? I'm not just talking about the joint bank account, where only specific funds are deposited and … [Read more...]

Proving Cohabitation to Terminate Alimony

Here’s the typical scenario:  You know your former spouse is living with a new lover. Your former spouse knows that in doing so, your alimony obligation is subject to reduction or termination.  But … [Read more...]

The Termination Of Alimony

Proving cohabitation is challenging, especially when you are dealing with a deceptive ex-spouse and a co-conspiring paramour, who are both motivated by the desire to continue to fleece you of your … [Read more...]

How To Prove Your Former Spouse is in a Supportive Relationship, and Terminate or Reduce Alimony Payments

Here’s the typical scenario:  You know she’s living with another man.  She knows she’s living with another man, and that in doing so, her alimony is at risk for reduction or termination.  But she also … [Read more...]

Eliminating “He Said/She Said” in Cohabitation Cases Using Cell Tower Location Records

In family law, the ability to prove or disprove the whereabouts of a person many times becomes the centerpiece of proving the cohabitation element of a “supportive relationship” case.  While the law … [Read more...]